Sending an umbrella for marriage has the meaning of dispersal, and it is not recommended to give an umbrella to the newlyweds. Sending an umbrella is a taboo for gift homophones. Depending on the dialects of different regions, the homophone for "umbrella" is "scattered" or "mourning", which has a bad meaning. Giving an umbrella to a new person means separation, which is considered unlucky by the public.
Taboos on giving gifts for marriage
1. Clock and Watch
'Zhong' and 'Zhong' have the same pronunciation, which is unlucky. Valuable clocks can be given as gifts on friends' birthdays or anniversaries, but it is best not to choose clocks as gifts when getting married.
2. Fan
Similar to the meaning of giving an umbrella, both "umbrella" and "fan" have the same pronunciation as "scatter", indicating a sense of dispersion.
3. Cutting tools
Sharp knives can easily injure people and have the meaning of breaking the knife. They can be given as gifts when the newlyweds move into a new house, not on the wedding day.
4. Singular number
When holding a wedding, there is often a saying of double happiness and good things coming in pairs. It is best to choose even numbers when giving gifts.
5. Towel
Towels are usually used by bereaved families as a token of gratitude to mourners, and should not be given as gifts on wedding days. However, wedding bedding, silk, fabrics, and other items other than towels can be given as gifts.