The origin of the word 'Guining' is partly due to the homophonic sound of 'boudoir' and 'Guining' in the Jiaodong dialect for girls. On the other hand, "Guining" first appeared in the Book of Songs, with the phrase "whether or not you wash or wash your clothes, return to your parents" meaning that you can go home to visit your parents as soon as you have washed and tidied up your clothes. Therefore, Guining gradually evolved into a etiquette and custom, also known as being a guest or returning home.
What are the rules for returning home
1. Time
The return time for newlyweds varies in different regions, with most returning to their parents' home on the third day after marriage, and some returning on the sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, or full moon.
2. Clothing
Although the attire for returning home may not be as elaborate as for getting married, it should still be appropriate and generous. It is best to wear new clothes with festive colors, such as cheongsam and red coats, which are good choices. If holding a returning home banquet, the attire should be more formal.
3. Gifts
When returning home, it is necessary to bring some gifts to the bride's parents to satisfy and reassure their parents in law. Common gifts for returning home include meat, eggs, fruits, tea, tobacco, alcohol, etc. The styles are often not fixed, but the gifts must be even numbers, meaning that couples will be in pairs, have double happiness, and have a good marriage for a hundred years.