Whether to bring a dowry when proposing depends mainly on local customs and habits. If there is a custom in the local area of offering dowries upon marriage proposal, then the dowries should be brought to the bride's home during the proposal. If there is no such custom, both parties can discuss the timing of the dowry, and many regions will choose to give the dowry at the time of engagement.
1、 What does the dowry include
1. Three gold or hardware
A common practice is to use three types of wedding jewelry, such as gold rings, gold necklaces, and gold earrings. Some men from well-off families may also prepare wedding hardware.
2. Cash
Cash is used as start-up capital for the couple's new home and can also be used as expenses during the wedding process. Generally speaking, this money is used to repay the nurturing kindness of the female's parents, and now more people choose to leave this money for their daughters.
3. RV
In addition to cash, some places also require the dowry to include a house and a car. Economic levels and customs vary in different regions, and in some areas, women may require men to purchase RVs to ensure better living security for women after marriage.
2、 Precautions for marriage proposal
1. Pay attention to appearance: DRESS neatly and beautifully.
2. Don't be empty handed: bring some small gifts as a sign of respect from elders.
3. Respect: Try to accommodate the opinions raised by the female party's family and follow the rules, otherwise it is easy to get into a deadlock if there is a disagreement.
4. Cannot be late: It's best to leave early and arrive a little earlier. If you are late due to traffic congestion or other factors, the other party will have a bad impression of you and think you are not punctual.
5. Number of proposed relatives: When proposing to someone, you can bring your parents and siblings, but remember that the number must be even.