Marriage does not require a wedding ceremony. Although getting married and having a wedding ceremony is a traditional Chinese custom that is very important for both families and individuals, as long as both families agree, it is possible not to have a wedding ceremony. A wedding is just a form of marriage, and its significance lies in obtaining recognition and blessings from society. The newlyweds can decide whether to hold a wedding according to their own and their family's needs.
1、 Is it okay not to have a wedding
sure. Wedding is one of the Five Rites of Life, a traditional wedding ceremony that represents the signing of a marriage contract and the formation of a new family by both parties. In modern times, many young people with their own ideas are unwilling to hold traditional weddings because they need to go through the process of registering for marriage and obtaining a marriage certificate. Compared to the complicated forms and etiquette of traditional weddings, contemporary young people tend to prefer warm, simple, and meaningful forms of marriage, such as holding a simple gathering with close people to share the joy of their new marriage.
2、 What can be done without a wedding ceremony
For couples who don't want to have a wedding, they can also do other meaningful things to make their marriage more ceremonial.
1. Family Travel
Sign up a travel group for both parents, they can play together in groups or go separately to enjoy a wonderful life during the trip.
Going to a place that everyone wants to go to but has been reluctant to go, leaving beautiful memories there, is also a very meaningful thing.
2. Buy suitable insurance for the family
Buy appropriate insurance for yourself, your partner, and your parents to prepare for some of the risks you may face in your future marriage.
3. Purchase a home and improve one's life
Invest the money in some furniture and equipment for your new home, buy some special items for yourself and your family, and improve your living standards.