1. Say some polite words: praise the other person's beautiful words, including their external temperament, etc;
2. Praising each other's children: Parents will be very happy when they hear others praise their children;
3. Talk about each other's situations: those from other places can talk about their hometown;
4. Discussing business matters: After getting familiar with each other through small talk, we should start discussing our child's marriage.
How do two in laws talk when they first meet
1. Say some polite words
When meeting for the first time, polite words are necessary to ease the atmosphere and facilitate the progress of the conversation. For example, "I didn't expect my in laws to look so young and take such good care of themselves", "It's said that we need to maintain an optimistic attitude in order to live younger, and only when we see our in laws do we know.
2. Praising each other's children
It is important to create a pleasant atmosphere when parents meet for the first time, so it is a good choice to praise each other's children appropriately. Parents are always proud of their children, so praising their children is often more effective than praising the parents themselves.
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3. Discussing each other's situations
The first time we meet, we can talk about each other's family situations. If we are not from the same place, we can introduce the customs and traditions of our hometown.
4. Discussing business matters
Parents meeting is definitely not just for exchanging emotions, but also for discussing their children's marriage. Therefore, after the small talk and familiarization session, we can move on to the main topic and discuss the children's affairs. At this point, what important matters to discuss mainly depends on the development of the children's emotions, whether it is dowry or wedding preparation, or engagement or certification, depending on the specific situation.
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