The meaning of 'Yu Gui Yan' is the wedding banquet where the newlyweds entertain guests on their wedding day. 'Return' represents returning home, and it also refers to when a woman truly returns home after marrying into her husband's family. Therefore, returning to one's hometown actually refers to a woman marrying into her husband's family. The Yu Gui banquet is a wedding banquet held for weddings.
The difference between returning banquet and coming out banquet
1. The time for the return banquet and the departure banquet is different
In modern times, the "Yu Gui Yan" refers to a banquet held on the day of a wedding, so the timing of the event depends on the wedding day. As for whether the wedding banquet is at noon or in the evening, it depends on local customs. The grand banquet is held at the mother's house on the day before her daughter's wedding, which is the day before the wedding.
2. The scale of the banquet for returning home and the banquet for leaving the pavilion is different
The return banquet is hosted by the relatives and friends of both men and women, so it is quite grand and the scale is also relatively large. The farewell banquet is different. It is held at the bride's family's home, so only the bride's relatives and friends are invited, so the scale is relatively small and the number of people is not very large Banquet Process
3. The attendees of the homecoming banquet and the farewell banquet are different
The banquet is held to entertain the relatives and friends of the bride, so the groom's staff, including his parents, are not present, and only the groom attends the banquet. But the homecoming banquet is different, there will not only be the parents and relatives of the groom, but also the parents and relatives of the bride.