The engagement adDRESS remains unchanged. According to tradition, most newlyweds change their name to 'parents' after receiving a change of name fee from their elders. If your change of name fee was given during the engagement, you should change your name during the engagement, according to local customs and elders' wishes.
1、 What is engagement
The meaning of engagement, also known as engagement, has been a custom in China since ancient times. Usually, the man brings gifts and cash to the woman's home, and holds the engagement ceremony under the witness of both parents and relatives. The relationship between the two in laws is naturally determined through chatting, eating, and other means.
2、 Should we change the name of our engagement
1. Decide whether to change your tune based on local customs
China has a vast land and abundant resources, and there is a saying that goes, 'Different customs within three miles, rules within ten miles.'. The wedding customs vary in different regions, so the habit of changing the name to 'parents' also varies, which can be determined according to local customs.
2. Ask elders if they want to change their words
After getting engaged, many people feel shy and embarrassed to change their words, but they are also hesitant about whether or not to change their words. At this time, you can seek the advice of your elders. If they ask you to change your words, you can follow their advice.
3. Change your tune on the wedding day
Some shy newlyweds change their names to 'parents' on the day of their wedding after receiving a change of name fee from their elders. Prior to this, they were referred to as' uncle and aunt'. Whether or not to change one's words doesn't actually affect anything, it's just getting used to the difference between one's parents in advance. It's okay to wait until the change fee is collected before changing one's words.