Taboos for welcoming relatives include: not being able to choose someone from the family to attend to the funeral, not being able to choose someone who is divorced or widowed, and not being able to choose the husband's aunt.
1. You can't choose someone to handle the funeral at home
Generally speaking, it is best to avoid happy events and funerals. If there is someone who has just gone through a funeral at home, do not choose to pick them up to avoid bringing bad luck to the wedding and affecting the fortune of the newlyweds.
2. Cannot choose people who are divorced or widowed
In many places, it is important to choose unmarried individuals for marriage. If choosing a married family member, it is better not to choose someone who is divorced or widowed. This may make the couple feel that there is no good omen and their marriage may be unlucky.
3. Cannot choose the man's aunt
The custom of "aunt not picking up, aunt not sending" is also common in many places. Because "aunt" sounds like "gu" or "gu", and "aunt" sounds like "doubt", they are not very auspicious words in marriage. Therefore, it is best for both the man's aunt and the woman's aunt not to participate in picking up or sending off relatives.