Both parents have to pay the change fee. The change fee represents the recognition and blessings of both parents towards the new couple, and can be chosen in different amounts depending on economic conditions.
1、 When will the change fee be paid
The change of mouth fee is given at the wedding ceremony, and when the newlyweds offer tea to both parents, the elders will give a change of mouth red envelope. The change fee for the bride's parents is given to the groom, and the change fee for the groom's parents is given to the bride.
2、 Why is there a change of speech fee
Offering a change of speech fee to the newlyweds is a recognition from both parents towards their son-in-law or daughter-in-law, and also a blessing for the newlyweds. To some extent, the change of speech fee is also a disguised form of support. As the new couple's life is about to begin, parental sponsorship can improve their living conditions to a certain extent.
3、 How much is the appropriate fee for changing speech
① 6666 yuan
In our Chinese culture, 6 is a very lucky number, which means "six to six". So, using 6666 yuan as a red envelope for newcomers to change their tune is very suitable. Its meaning is to hope that the newlyweds can have a smooth and happy life after getting married.
② 8888 yuan
In fact, the meaning of the red envelope of 8888 yuan and 6666 yuan is very similar, because the homophone of 8 is "send", which means hoping that the new couple's future life can be happy and prosperous, and their life can be sweet and happy.
③ 9999 yuan
The Chinese character for 'jiu' symbolizes a long and long-lasting relationship, indicating that the parents of the newlyweds hope that their future marriage life can be long-lasting, happy, and fulfilling.
④ 10001 yuan
One in a million. Choosing one out of ten thousand is the highest praise for the bride or groom, indicating that parents are very satisfied with their daughter-in-law or son-in-law.
⑤ 10007 yuan
Ten thousand miles to choose a wife. If the groom's parents give the bride a change of speech fee, they can also choose 10007, which means choosing a wife from thousands of miles, representing that the groom's family is very satisfied with their daughter-in-law and also shows their importance to her.