1. Preparation before departure: Have a thorough understanding of your boyfriend's home, prepare suitable gifts for meeting elders, and confirm that your attire and makeup are appropriate.
2. In terms of speech and behavior when meeting, use polite language and behave elegantly without affectation.
3. In terms of chat content: Do not talk about your boyfriend's shortcomings or negative aspects, and do not delve too deeply into topics with the other person's parents.
1、 Preparation before departure
1. First, make a thorough understanding
Before meeting with parents, you should first understand the basic situation of your boyfriend's parents, such as likes and dislikes. This will facilitate the preparation of suitable gifts for the other party and also help find some topics to talk about in the relationship, making your first impression in the other party's heart better.
2. Prepare a meeting gift
When visiting elders, it is necessary to prepare gifts that suit their preferences. If the other person does not have anything they particularly like, then prepare items suitable for middle-aged and elderly people, such as massage equipment, warm clothing, fruit milk, and so on.
3. Confirm that the clothing and makeup are appropriate
Before going to your boyfriend's house, prepare clothes that are suitable for meeting your parents. Choose clothes that are more everyday, but be careful with your makeup. Don't go to your parents with heavy makeup, just apply a fresh and elegant makeup.
2、 Speech and behavior when meeting
1. Use polite language
When chatting with your boyfriend's family, pay attention to honorifics and other polite expressions, such as aunt, uncle, you, thank you, etc. Even if you are a generous and impolite person, you should use more words like thank you when meeting for the first time, which will make the other person feel that you are very polite.
2. Elegant and unpretentious behavior
At your boyfriend's house, it is important to have elegant posture and movements, but not too deliberate. After all, elders have so many years of life experience that they can tell at a glance whether you are pretending or not, so it is better to be natural. Just be careful not to be too casual.
3、 Notes on Chat Content
1. Don't talk about the shortcomings of the man
It is best not to talk about your boyfriend's shortcomings when chatting with the other party's family. The other party's family may humbly point out some of their own children's shortcomings, but if you continue to point out various shortcomings of your boyfriend at this time, it will greatly reduce their favorability towards you.
2. Don't talk too deeply about topics
The first meeting is only for basic understanding and getting along with each other, and it is not suitable to talk too much about in-depth topics. You cannot bring the topic to marriage, children, buying a house, family conditions, and other topics.