Not necessarily, whether or not to give red envelopes when returning home depends on local conditions. On the third day after the wedding, the groom needs to bring gifts to accompany the bride home to pay respects to her parents. The bride's family will hold a banquet to entertain her, and in some areas, there is a tea ceremony at the homecoming banquet. The elders of the groom's family can give a red envelope as a gift after the groom has served tea, wishing the newlyweds a happy marriage. However, if there is no such custom in the area, there is no need to give a red envelope to the son-in-law.
What should I pay attention to when returning home
1. Return time
In ancient times, the return time was usually on the 3rd, 6th, 7th, 8th, and 9th day after marriage. Nowadays, the return time is generally on the third day after marriage.
2. Back door DRESS up
The clothing for returning home should be simple and elegant, and the colors should also be festive. Red cheongsams, dresses, and coats are good choices. If you want to hold a returning home banquet, the attire can be more grand.
3. Returning home banquet
Some families will hold a homecoming banquet to entertain the bride's relatives and friends who were unable to attend the wedding. The bride will accompany the groom to toast one by one, accept everyone's blessings, and express gratitude.
4. Return door gift
When returning home, it is necessary to bring some gifts to the woman's family. Common back door gifts include tea, tobacco and alcohol, health products, specialty products, etc. The style is not fixed, but it must be an even number, symbolizing double happiness at home.