1. Find a suitable reason for rejection
Since you are certain that you do not want to attend the wedding, you need to find a suitable reason to refuse. Try to choose reasons that are work-related or very critical, so that the other party understands that you have more important things to do on the wedding day, and this will not hurt each other's relationship.
2. Don't be unable to say the first sentence
After receiving an invitation from the other party, don't immediately say that you can't go. First, ask about the time and location of the wedding, and then ask the people you know who will attend the wedding, saying that you may not be able to go, but try to make time. One week before the wedding, personally call the newlyweds and explain the reasons why you can't go.
3. Gift money cannot be reduced
Although I refused to attend the wedding, the gift money cannot be reduced. Gift money is also a beautiful blessing for the newlyweds. You can transfer the gift money directly to the newlyweds and send blessings; Or ask a familiar friend to bring the gift money and sign it on the wedding day, which can also show one's sincerity.
