1. Red envelope given by boyfriend's parents
If you visit your boyfriend's house for the first time and his parents give you a red envelope, but you don't want to accept it, you can first express your gratitude to his parents and then explain that this is your first visit and you have no plans to get married yet. If you are fortunate enough to become a family in the future, it is not too late to accept the red envelope. This can increase the goodwill of the other party's parents towards you.
2. Festival red envelopes given by relatives
When you don't want to receive holiday red envelopes from relatives, you can express gratitude to them. Blessings between relatives are already precious, and gifts and red envelopes are just forms. The friendship between relatives is more valuable than red envelopes. I hope to maintain contact in the future. After rejecting the other party's red envelope, if there is a chance to visit in person in the future, you can bring some gifts as a token of gratitude.