Fear of marriage may be due to the shadow of one's original family, fear of taking responsibility, fear of losing freedom, or simply a common anxiety before marriage.
1. The shadow of the original family
People who have unhappy marriages with their parents are prone to marital phobia, as they have witnessed their parents' unhappy marriages since childhood and worry that they will repeat the same mistakes. They lack confidence in their marriage, but at the same time, they long for it and are constantly in conflict.
2. Afraid of taking responsibility
Marriage and love are different. They are not just a family game, but require one to take responsibility and obligations. Immature people only want to play and do not want to take responsibility. When the responsibility of marriage and family is about to fall on themselves, fear naturally arises in their hearts.
3. Fear of losing freedom
People who pursue freedom are also prone to marriage phobia, and once they get used to a life without supervision, they feel bound and lose their freedom once they enter into marriage.
4. Common anxiety psychology
When the wedding season is approaching, people with marriage phobia always have wild thoughts, imagining that their marriage is unhappy and even having thoughts of breaking up. In fact, this is a common phenomenon because facing significant changes in life stages, it is natural for people to temporarily feel uncertain and anxious about their future life.