Men and women should first meet the parents of the male party when meeting their parents. After marriage, the man needs to bear heavier family responsibilities, so the pressure on the man is inevitably greater than that on the woman. After the female party obtains the approval of the male party's parents, the male party gives some instructions when meeting the female party's parents, which to some extent reduces the pressure on the male party and also makes the female party's parents feel the sincerity of the male party's family, which helps to enhance and stabilize the relationship between the two parties.
Precautions when meeting parents
1. On time
Punctuality is very important, especially when meeting the groom's parents for the first time. Because usually the parents of the male partner will prepare meals in advance, but if they delay and miss the meal time, it will leave a bad impression on the other parent.
2. DRESS code
Dress generously and appropriately, avoid being too revealing, and try to dress formally. Choose a piece of clothing that can showcase your style and be more conservative. Sweaters and skirts are both good choices.
3. Etiquette and Etiquette
When meeting the parents of the groom, greet them first. Being polite will give a good first impression. If you still want to stay for dinner together, then be sure to pay attention to table manners.
Be enthusiastic and generous, but don't talk too much. You can talk about some topics appropriately, but the main focus should be on your boyfriend's parents to avoid making people feel that you are too noisy. For the questions raised by the male's parents, it is important to provide appropriate answers.
4. Meeting Gift
When going to your boyfriend's house, you can prepare a small gift. Gifts are light and emotions are heavy. A small gift can also show the other party's parents their intentions for this meeting.