Pre marital phobia is a psychological fear of marriage caused by people's analysis of the negative aspects of marriage through social opinion and some media, leading to a tendency to avoid the symptoms of marriage. Simply put, premarital phobia refers to the inexplicable fear of marriage that arises in the hearts of prospective couples before they get married, to the point where they do not want to get married or even avoid it. In fact, this is a psychological avoidance, which is also known as premarital phobia.
Reasons for developing premarital phobia
1. The urging of family and friends creates a rebellious mentality
Many girls get married because they are at the right age to get married, but they are actually unwilling to get married in their hearts. Meanwhile, family and friends are urging them to get married every day, which may cause girls to develop a rebellious mentality. The more you urge me to get married, the less likely I am to get married, which directly leads to girls suffering from premarital phobia.
2. Worried about not being able to balance work and family
Nowadays, it's different from before. Many girls now have stable jobs and can rely on them to support themselves and even live a better life. After getting married, not only do you have to work, but you also have to take care of your family. The pressure will become increasingly high, and if you want to have children, you may have to take a break from work for a period of time, which may have a significant impact on your future.
3. Free time is becoming increasingly scarce
After getting married, one must continue to work, do household chores, take care of parents in law, and after giving birth, take care of children. They work during the day and take care of the house at night, leaving no leisure in their life. I can't go shopping that I usually like anymore, and I have fewer gatherings with my girlfriends. A series of things have taken up my free time.
4. Worried about getting along well with my mother-in-law
Many girls have seen too many very poor relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in society, which has led them to worry about whether they can get along well with their future mother-in-law. They want to transform from a little princess to a good daughter-in-law and strive to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.