In heterosexual conversations, it is important to actively break the deadlock, open up new topics, capture key words during the conversation, use witty and humorous language, and prepare questions in advance that can expand the topic.
1. Proactively breaking the silence and opening up new topics
When chatting with the opposite sex and falling into a cold state, if you still want to continue chatting, you cannot be afraid of embarrassment. You should actively break the cold state and try to naturally open up new topics that can arouse the other person's interest. Otherwise, the atmosphere will become increasingly awkward.
2. Capture keywords during chat
Be good at capturing the keywords in the other party's reply to your message, and develop a topic based on these keywords. It will make the conversation between both parties more natural and not suffer from having no topics to talk about.
3. Use witty and humorous language
Using witty and humorous language can not only make conversations more interesting, but also create a relaxed and humorous atmosphere for the other person, allowing them to chat with you more naturally. It will also make the other person think that you are a witty and humorous person. But never make cold jokes, and when joking, be careful not to go too far.
4. Prepare questions in advance that can initiate the topic
Prepare some open-ended questions or interesting things about life in advance. This can create a more relaxed atmosphere for chatting and make it easier for the other party to resonate. At the same time, it can also allow both parties to have a deeper understanding.