Have you been having a headache lately? What gift should you give to the groom's parents at the end of the year? What kind of gift is neither cheap nor too valuable? Today, let's share the inspiration for gift giving when meeting the parents of your first date~
1、 Attention to Giving Gifts to Male Parents
When seeing gifts from the groom's parents, there are generally three things to pay attention to:
1. Gifts should be given with dignity
The meaning of dignity is not expensive, but rather that the gift should be exquisite and of good quality.
For example, if you buy a very expensive necklace but the packaging box is very simple, will others think that this is not very valuable compared to the necklace. So the outer packaging of the gift should be carefully crafted.
And don't elders like to share their lives on social media? If the packaging is not in place, wouldn't it be that they don't have much to share their gifts?
2. Gift giving should be thoughtful
The thoughtfulness of the gift depends on the boyfriend's help. You need to first understand his family's preferences and learn as much as possible about each family member. To give thoughtful gifts, you need to first inquire and then buy according to your preferences and needs.
3. Leave a way out when giving gifts
This is entirely from one's own perspective. If the relationship is stable and moving towards marriage, then you definitely can't just give a gift once, right? So it is not recommended to give a particularly expensive gift for the first time, otherwise the gift may not meet the level of care this time, and there may be a gap between the other party's parents. The gift from the other person's parents for the first time should be polite and in line with one's current abilities.
2、 Recommended gifts for girls to meet male parents
1. Recommended gifts for men and mothers
▶ Silk scarf gift box
Don't underestimate mothers' love for silk scarves. A high-end silk scarf can make mothers the proudest star in the sisters group~
▶ Cashmere scarf
If you want to meet your parents during the Chinese New Year, a cashmere scarf is perfect for keeping warm and generous in winter! A 100% cashmere scarf, not the tacky middle-aged and elderly style in memory, with a simple and high-quality design~
▶ skin care products
If the boyfriend's mother is a beauty loving mother who is more concerned about skincare, choosing products such as yellow whitening and anti wrinkle repair is very suitable for female elders who have certain requirements for skincare.
2. Recommended gift for the groom's father
▶ Tea gift box
Drinking tea every day is really good for the body, and different types of tea have different effects. You can choose according to the situation of your girlfriend and family. Recommended brands: green tea (Lion Brand, West Lake Brand, Lu Zhenghao), white tea (Green Snow Sprout, Six Beauties)
▶ Alcohol
If you want to give wine as a gift for meeting parents for the first time, you must ask your boyfriend whether his father drinks or not, and whether his mother has more say. If it's suitable for gifting, then it's definitely not wrong to buy the wine that Uncle likes to drink. See what kind of wine Uncle likes before buying~Recommended brands: Wuliangye, Guorui 1573, Haizhilan, Luzhou Laojiao.
▶ tea set
As the saying goes, a good horse comes with a good saddle. I just sent tea to my uncle, and instantly felt that I still lacked such a satisfactory tea set. Then choose another set of tea utensils. Okay, there's a bit of elegance now~
3. Recommended gifts for the whole family
▶ Shoulder and neck massage equipment
Like shoulder and neck massage equipment, as well as its companions such as blood pressure monitors, blood glucose meters, foot baths, head massages, eye massages... they are all suitable as gifts for giving health to each other's parents~
▶ local specialities
If you have local specialties, be sure to bring some with you, such as the Zhiwei Guan pastry gift box in Hangzhou, the Daoxiang Village gift box in Beijing, the Emperor's preserved meat gift box, and the nut gift box. These foods can all be paired and brought with you! The whole family can eat it. If there are some pastries and cooked food, it would be more worry free to come to the dining table directly during the Chinese New Year~
After saying so many gifts, don't you worry about what gift your boyfriend's parents will give you now~