1. Discussing marriage related matters
When getting engaged, the parents of the bride must stand on their daughter's side and fight for certain rights and obligations for their daughter. And when both parties discuss marriage related matters, it should be emphasized that the wedding date and bonus cannot be arbitrarily changed.
2. Advice for my daughter
When getting engaged, the parents of the bride should be rational parents, not highly praise their children, and not belittle the groom. At the same time, in front of your in laws, tell your daughter that you are going to start a new family on your own. This is your home, and your parents in law are also your parents. You should respect them, love them, and take care of them. Be careful and considerate when dealing with your husband, and don't play with small temper tantrums. This shows that the woman's family is understanding, graceful and generous, and can also improve the relationship between the in laws.
3. Expectations for son-in-law
When getting engaged, you should also tell your future son-in-law that you will be a family, working together to support and respect each other, working together, respecting and loving each other, and living a good life. Difficulties are inevitable in life, so two people should work together to overcome them, without blaming or suspecting each other. When there is something, two people should discuss their capacity well, avoid arguing, and no matter how much they argue, they are not allowed to take action. This is both a principle and a bottom line.
