On a blind date, you can talk about your preferences, interesting things in life, and your plans for the future when you meet for the first time.
1、 First time meeting, blind date, chat topics
1. Starting from preferences
Everyone has their own interests, such as watching movies, reading books, etc. When communicating their interests, they can also understand each other's interests and lay a foundation for future communication. But when boys chat, they must leave space for girls and not show off their interests endlessly, which may make girls lose the idea of chatting with you and greatly reduce their favorability towards you.
2. Talk about interesting things you've encountered
When chatting on a blind date for the first time, it is important to create a relaxed atmosphere and not complain about the unpleasant aspects of life and work. If the other party feels negative, they will definitely not be in the mood to continue chatting. We can talk about some easy and happy things to bring each other closer.
3. My own plan for the future
This topic can be discussed when the conversation is getting better, but avoid saying it like this right away.
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Binjiang Garden Hotel
2、 Precautions for First Time Meeting and Blind Date
1. Do not stare at specific parts of the female body (such as breasts, legs, etc.) as this can be very awkward and awkward.
2. Don't ask about your sexual experience or ex partner for the first time, as it may make the woman feel embarrassed and disgusted.
3. Do not ask self referential questions. For example, you writers must have rich emotional experiences, right
4. Don't imagine the future too far away. The first time we met, we talked about getting married at 3 months and having children within 6 months. Asking any blind date like this would scare them away
5. Don't judge the other person's body shape. How come no one is chasing you with such a great figure? "" Why are you only so tall
6. Don't give the other person a chance to speak. It's really difficult to have a happy conversation with someone who talks endlessly during blind dates.
7. Don't be too exaggerated/pretentious. Saying 'you are the dream lover I want' as soon as we meet really makes the other person feel exaggerated; Regarding salary income, you can choose not to mention it, but don't exaggerate it too much.
8. Do not have physical contact. Using excuses to touch the other person's body during the first meeting can easily cause resentment.
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