There is no strict order for the parents of both parties to meet and propose. Whether to meet the parents of the male party first or the parents of the female party first can be decided through mutual consultation. According to a more reasonable order, it is to meet the parents of the male party, meet the parents of the female party, propose, and meet the parents of both parties.
1、 The order of proposing marriage when both parents meet
1. Meet the male's parents
If there is no gift given or both sides receive the same amount of gifts, you can choose to meet the man's parents first to understand the man's family situation.
2. Meet the female's parents
After the female party inspects the male party's family, the male party can be brought home to meet the female party's parents, and the male and female parties' families can get to know each other.
3. Propose marriage
When both families are satisfied, the proposal can be made at the appropriate time of getting along. Compared to proposing before meeting parents, proposing after meeting parents is more reasonable.
4. Both parents meet in person
After the proposal is completed, both parents can choose a suitable time to meet and discuss the relevant matters of engagement.
2、 Propose first or meet both parents first
Whether to propose first or meet the parents of both parties can vary from person to person. If the relationship is stable and both parents bless, it is possible to propose first and then formally meet the parents of both parties. However, it is generally better to first meet the parents before proposing. If both parents are satisfied, then proposing will go much smoother because meeting the parents after proposing will cause embarrassment for both parties if they oppose it.