Getting married and leaving the government is the same thing. Previously, the princess's marriage was referred to as leaving the palace, but later it was generally referred to as a woman's marriage. In ancient times, the pavilion was also known as the boudoir, and unmarried women lived in the attic. In ancient times, the Three Obediences and Four Virtues were highly respected, and women were required not to leave the main door or step outside the second door, and were not allowed to meet with men from the outside world. Therefore, married women were called "out of the pavilion", while unmarried women were considered unmarried.
The process of leaving the cabinet
1. Host's Opening
Invite a professional host or a respected elder from the family to host the banquet. The host needs to deliver an opening speech for the banquet and promote its progress.
2. The bride appears with her parents
The farewell banquet is held by the bride's family, and the bride needs to appear with her parents and give a speech to thank the guests.
3. Groom Proposal Stage
After the groom to be appears, he should hold flowers and kneel on one knee, begging the bride for marriage.
4. Prospective groom passes the exam stage
This step can adjust the atmosphere on site. Usually, the bride's family and friends take the stage to test the prospective groom. They usually prepare some questions about the bride and ask the groom to see if he cares about the bride. If they cannot answer, there will be a small punishment.
5. The groom kneels down to worship his parents in law
After the bride agrees to the groom's request for marriage, the groom should kneel down and bow to his parents in law, offer tea, and change his tune.
6. The groom makes a declaration of love
The groom needs to make his love declaration and promise in front of the bride's relatives and friends, so that guests can see his sincerity and trust the bride.
7. Toasting session
Toasting is the final stage of the coming out ceremony, where the bride and groom sit next to each other to toast, thank guests for their arrival, and receive blessings.