Do you live with your partner's parents after marriage? How to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? This has always been a topic of endless debate among everyone. Today, Xiaoxi will share some tips for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along harmoniously. Newcomers, hurry up and read on together
1、 Daughter in law article
A harmonious and happy relationship requires a wife to actively and wholeheartedly manage it.
1. Filial piety to parents in law
All parents hope that their children will be filial, and since we have become a family, parents in law naturally also hope that their daughters in law can be respected. So you can communicate more with your parents in law in daily life, deepen mutual understanding, and enhance the relationship between both parties. Don't forget to give them blessings or some small gifts during festivals and holidays to express your feelings.
2. Learn to praise each other
Praising the other person can make people happier and make the relationship closer and more harmonious. Therefore, daughter-in-law should not be stingy with her own praise, praise her mother-in-law more. Learn to praise, and the other person will also praise you in return. Mutual praise between two people can increase mutual affection.
3. Learn to be tolerant and get along with others
Everyone has their own temperament and personality, and requires mutual tolerance, understanding, and respect for each other's personalities. Not understanding how to tolerate and coexist will only accelerate the deterioration of relationships between each other, which is not conducive to the normal development of relationships.
4. Resolve conflicts
Over time, conflicts are inevitable. When a conflict arises, we must face and resolve it in a timely manner to avoid a deeper level of conflict. Many times, conflicts arise when both parties do not agree with each other's ideas or actions. Daughters in law should learn to put themselves in others' SHOES, stand from the perspective of their parents in law, and use more accurate expressions to deal with problems.
5. Don't have too high expectations for your in laws
The bride must not compare her in laws with her own parents, nor should she have too high expectations in advance. Sometimes, the higher the expectations, the more likely she is to be disappointed because her in laws and daughter-in-law have not been together for a long time and do not have a deep emotional connection. Therefore, she should accept that her in laws may not take care of her as much.
6. Think positively when encountering problems
Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, as well as their strengths and weaknesses. Discover the strengths of parents in law in daily life and try not to complain.
2、 Son Chapter
Sons also play an important role in promoting harmonious coexistence between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
1. Son, we need to establish a strong bond
As both a son and a husband, a son should strike a balance and maintain a bond between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, that is, "a bowl of water is balanced". For example, when there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son should be able to mediate, first pacify both parties, wait for them to calm down, and then try to reason with both parties so that they can understand each other.
2. Give your wife and parents a sense of security
In daily life, sons should treat their wives and parents equally well, give them a sense of security, and allow mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to slowly get along during happy times, enhance their relationship, and jointly build a warm and harmonious family.
3. Good people make their wives do it
When you buy something to show filial piety to your parents, or do something to make them happy, you can let your daughter-in-law do it, or do it in her name. This way, parents will feel that their daughter-in-law is reasonable and naturally increase their good impression of them.
4. Provide ample space for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
As the saying goes, distance produces beauty. So it's best not to let mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stay together for a long time, so it's not easy to have friction and disagreements. Especially try not to live with parents and give everyone enough space, otherwise conflicts may arise due to trivial matters at home.
If you are struggling with whether to live with your in laws or parents, these 10 questions can be considered first
