Box money, also known as box gift or body money, is the dowry money prepared by the mother's family for her daughter when she gets married. Pre marital packing money is one of the wedding procedures in China. Box money is the property that parents want their daughters to bring to the groom's house in hopes of a better life, with the meaning of wealth and good fortune.
1、 The significance of pressing box money
In ancient times, box money was a "life-saving money" prepared by parents for their daughters, allowing them to come in handy during times of hardship and loneliness. The current box money is a way for the woman to express to the man that her daughter is the apple of the family's eye and needs their care and love even if she marries into the man's family. This money is for the daughter's emergency use in the future, implying that even if she gets married, she will still have something to rely on.
In addition, according to traditional Chinese customs, the woman placing money in the box is an auspicious omen, representing that both the man and the woman have already accumulated savings before getting married, and their future life will also be prosperous and happy.
2、 The Importance of Pressing Box Money
1. Quantity
When preparing the box money, the amount can be determined based on local customs, family situation, and the amount of dowry given by the groom.
2. Placement
Box money can be placed in circular, fan-shaped, 8-shaped, and flower shaped shapes, and can also be directly placed on a check or bank card.
3. Packing time
The time for packing money is usually the night before the wedding.
4. Ownership of compressed box money
(1) Marriage before obtaining the certificate, the gift of box money belongs to the bride's personal property;
(2) After obtaining the marriage certificate, if it is not explicitly stated that the box money is only given to the female party, then it belongs to the property of both husband and wife.