The groom can give the bride price to the bride before and after the engagement, which not only highlights the groom's emphasis on marriage, but also gives the bride's family a face. Of course, the bride price can also be given to the bride's house one day before the wedding, but this time will be rushed and the sense of ceremony will be slightly weaker.
1. Giving dowries before and after engagement
According to traditional wedding customs, the groom's elders will officially visit the bride's home before marriage. This is just a marriage proposal, sometimes it can also be replaced by a matchmaker. In this case, they can bring a portion of the dowry money to the bride as a sign of respect. On the day of the official engagement, the groom's parents will pay the remaining dowry in front of all the bride's relatives and friends.
It is generally more suitable to give dowries on the day of engagement, especially for couples who are in a free love relationship and getting married. On the day of the engagement, not only were both parents present, but also two respected elders from both families. At this point, giving dowry money not only highlights the man's emphasis on marriage, but also makes the woman look more "presentable".
2. Give dowry one day before marriage
The dowry can also be given one day before marriage, but this has certain drawbacks. Due to the tight schedule, the sense of ceremony was not as strong, and the bride's family was busy with the wedding ceremony the next day, leaving no time for the dowry. But one advantage is that the bride can place the dowry in the hall, showcasing the grandeur of the wedding.