The meaning of marriage is to make a promise to the loved one, to support each other and accompany them until old age.
1. The sublimation of emotions
For couples who are deeply in love, marriage is the sublimation of their relationship, representing a new stage in each other's lives. For each other, it has more important significance. Every couple who get along seriously will consider marriage to some extent, because it is the sublimation of their relationship, the transformation from lovers to family+lovers.
2. Birth crystallization
Having children after marriage is a legal act, so the children born after marriage are also the crystallization of the love between two people. Because the magnetic field between two loving people is different, the environment and warmth they bring to their children are also different. In a legal marriage, children born and raised are more secure and confident.
3. Firm reliance
In our lives, we will encounter many difficulties and storms. It is not scary to walk a certain distance alone. After walking a lifetime alone, there will inevitably be moments of loneliness and solitude, especially when facing the ups and downs of life. It is very fragile and difficult. If you have a healthy and normal marriage, then the other party is your strongest reliance during the low points of life.
4. Emotional companionship
People are animals in society, and we need social interaction and companionship. Therefore, a stable marital life can bring us sufficient emotional companionship. Parents will grow old, children will grow up, and the only person who can truly accompany you through this life is not only yourself, but also the other half who holds hands with you.
5. No longer lonely
After marriage, there will be a lively and warm home, no longer needing to eat alone, watch movies alone, or sleep alone. The trivialities of family life require both husband and wife to work together, and one cannot fully experience the feeling of loneliness.
6. More sense of responsibility
Before marriage, men can stay up all night, while women can be stubborn and indulge, endlessly squandering their parents' patience. After marriage, men need to raise their wives and children, strive for their careers, while women need to take care of household chores and educate their husbands and children. So getting married can make people feel responsible, mature, and constantly improve themselves in their married life.
7. Expand social circle
Marriage doubles everything, such as the social resources, family and friends of both spouses. The husband's becomes the wife's, and of course, the wife's also becomes the husband's, enriching social resources and expanding social connections.
8. I found another child for my parents
Getting married adds an extra pair of parents, and for both parents, it is also an additional child. Parents are gradually aging and require more care. For single individuals, this will only cause their parents to worry year by year. However, after getting married, they can accompany and take care of both parents, allowing them to live a peaceful life
9. Double the good mood
When someone shares something happy, it becomes twice as happy. If someone shares the pain, it can be reduced by half. That sharer must be your closest lover. Getting married can make people feel good every day, naturally leading to a happy mood and enjoying health and longevity.
10. Satisfy desires
The ancients said, 'Food and color are also innate instincts of all animals.'. According to Maslow's theory in "The Theory of Human Motivation," physiological needs are the most basic human needs, such as food, water, air, sexual desire, health, etc. Marriage is a legally recognized formal marital relationship that can meet people's most basic physiological needs.