After both parties have expressed their intention to get married, they will discuss together what kind of betrothal ceremony is needed, and the man will then formally come to the groom's house for the betrothal ceremony. What aspects should the male party start with when proposing to the female party's house?
1. Politely greet the female's family
Nowadays, many young people come to propose marriage after free love. If the day of the marriage proposal is a holiday, then the man's opening remarks can include some happy holiday greetings. If it is a regular visit to propose, you can have a brief chat first and then explain the purpose of your visit.
If the man invites his parents or matchmaker to propose the marriage, then the man does not need to make an opening statement, and the parents or matchmaker will start the ceremony. If the man comes to propose himself, he should politely greet the woman's parents. Then introduce your own situation, explain your purpose of coming, and answer the questions raised by the other party.
2. Topics such as the groom's offer of dowry and dowries
When proposing to the bride's family, the groom usually takes the initiative to be more polite. Most of the time, topics such as dowries and dowries are initiated by the groom. At the same time, when discussing, it is important to ask for the other party's opinions and views, and not to be too stubborn.
3. The man's words and actions should be polite and courteous
When proposing marriage to the woman, the man must maintain a respectful and valued attitude. Especially for the groom himself, he should be polite and courteous towards the words and actions of the bride, and should not be too casual, otherwise it will leave a bad impression on the bride's parents.
4. When discussing, the tone should be sincere and calm
Regardless of whether there are different opinions and disagreements between both parties regarding the dowry and other aspects, when discussing, the tone should be sincere and calm. Don't blush and make the situation awkward just because of the disagreement between the two parties. Speaking in a harmonious manner is the most important thing.