When proposing to someone, it is natural to prepare some gifts. The four things that Chaoshan people give as gifts include cigarettes, wine, candy, and tea.
1. Cigarettes
Whether it's meeting parents for the first time, getting engaged, getting married, or returning home, cigarettes are essential items for marriage. Therefore, cigarettes are also indispensable when proposing a marriage. Even if the elders do not have the habit of smoking, cigarettes must be prepared to indicate a good omen.
When giving cigarettes, be sure to give two pairs. As the saying goes, "pair up", do not give two boxes. This may be a bit shabby! And it should be noted that the cigarettes brought during the marriage proposal must be different from the wedding cigarettes prepared, preferably more high-end, in order to reflect the man's attention to the woman!
2. Alcohol
Like cigarettes, alcohol is also a gift that runs through the entire process of preparing for marriage, and it is also essential when proposing a marriage. Two bottles of Baijiu should also be given when delivering wine, and it is better to use the wine of higher quality. This kind of wine can be used in any occasion, and it is more suitable for the needs of male elders. As for the brand of Baijiu, it's easy to say that there's nothing wrong with giving away what is valuable!
3. Candy
Candy is a must-have for betrothal, don't underestimate small candies. They may feel like an unattainable gift, but candy symbolizes sweetness and implies that the newlywed life will definitely be sweeter than honey. Therefore, preparing two servings of candy is also essential! When preparing candies, it's time to prepare them in abundance, such as puff pastry, lactose, fruit candy, marshmallows, milk candy, etc., which not only meet the needs of elders but also cater to the tastes of children. The whole family will praise you endlessly!
4. Tea leaves
When it comes to betrothal gifts, we have to mention tea, because even people who don't smoke, drink alcohol, or eat sugar will occasionally drink tea, and drinking tea has many health benefits for people. It can be considered the most health preserving gift among the four types of betrothal gifts, so be sure to prepare carefully! Whether it's canned tea or tea bricks, it's definitely not wrong to buy whatever grade is high!