In ancient times, betrothal was the key to determining whether a marriage could succeed. In modern times, betrothal is mainly a ceremony to show the sincerity and economic strength of the groom's family to the bride's family. When the man comes to the woman's house to propose and talk, the following points can guide the topic.
1. Introduce the basic conditions of the family
Nowadays, when getting married, the woman values the economic conditions of the man's family very much. Therefore, when proposing marriage, the man can once again specifically talk about his own basic situation, where his advantages lie, and highlight the conditions that others do not have in his family. This way, the woman's parents will feel that the man can provide sufficient material living conditions for the woman in their own family.
2. Boys' strengths
The parents of the male partner should give more information to the parents of the female partner about the boy's good personality, moral character, and work. These are all things that the female family is very concerned about, as they are related to the happiness of life.
3. The man should take the initiative to be polite
When proposing a marriage, it is inevitable to talk about financial benefits. At this time, the man should take the initiative to propose and give the woman's family sincerity within his own tolerance. When discussing, it is important to ask for the other party's opinions and thoughts, and not to be too stubborn.