The items that a man should bring when proposing to a woman's house are as follows.
cash gift
The specific content of the gift money requires the male party to actively inquire with the female party, such as the amount of gift money and how to receive the betrothal gift. It is also necessary to determine whether the dowry includes wedding expenses and various customs and etiquette expenditures, such as uncle's gift, DRESSing gift, table pressing gift, chef's gift, serving gift, etc., which should be discussed accordingly to avoid disputes in the future. The amount of gift money varies depending on local customs and traditions.
Dowry list
In many regions, the most important thing in the betrothal ceremony is to discuss the dowry. So before the groom comes to propose, he must make a list of dowries based on the local dowry situation and estimate his own tolerance range for both parties to discuss the specific amount.
Meeting Gift
When the groom comes to propose to the bride, a meeting ceremony is essential, which can be divided into six and eight types. The gifts brought to your doorstep must be even numbers, such as tobacco and alcohol, candy, pastries, red dates, lotus seeds, sweet things (not limited to types), round cakes (representing a round and full event), apple gift boxes representing good luck and happiness, etc.