Whether or not to offer dowry money for marriage depends on local customs. In some regions, betrothal requires the groom to bring a dowry along with him to express his sincerity in getting married. The bride's family will evaluate the groom's family's economic strength based on the dowry before deciding whether to betroth the daughter to the groom. However, in some regions, the dowry is only given during the engagement. Therefore, whether to offer a dowry or not should be determined according to the customs of each region.
When is the dowry usually given
1. Giving dowries before and after engagement
According to traditional wedding customs, before getting married, the groom's elders will officially visit the bride's house. On the day of the visit, they will first give a portion of the dowry money to the bride to show respect. On the day of the official engagement, the groom's parents will present the remaining dowry to the bride in front of all her relatives and friends.
2. Give dowry on the day before marriage
The bride price can also be given the day before the wedding, but due to the limited time and everyone being busy with the wedding, the sense of ceremony may not be as strong. However, the bride can place the bride price in the hall to showcase the grandeur of the wedding and gain face.