Not having a banquet for a married woman may not necessarily be looked down upon. There is no explicit regulation that the female party's family must hold a banquet. The act of holding a banquet is voluntary, and even if neither party holds a banquet, there is no problem. Having a wedding banquet is a personal choice, as long as both the male and female families communicate well. If you care and feel that having a wedding is a matter of face, you will gain a brief sense of satisfaction and happiness. If you don't care, then whether the wedding is held or not has nothing to do with face.
The form of holding a wedding banquet
1. Both men and women should handle it together
It is now quite common for both men and women to hold banquets together. Arrange the contents of the wedding banquet in the hotel and invite relatives and friends from both the groom's and bride's families to attend the banquet together. This method is more convenient and only requires one session, which is relatively easy for newcomers.
2. Separate processing for both men and women
There is also a situation where the groom's wedding banquet and the bride's wedding banquet are held separately. In general, in such cases, the groom's family invites his relatives and friends to the wedding banquet, while the bride's family invites her relatives and friends to the wedding banquet. This approach can better handle the allocation of wedding expenses and gifts.
3. Organize a small wedding banquet
If the newlyweds want to travel and get married, they can hold a small wedding banquet before or after the trip, just inviting some close relatives and friends such as uncles and aunts. The format is also relatively simple.