The dowry is for engagement. Both families usually discuss the dowry after the proposal and before the engagement, because engagement refers to the final step of the engagement between the newlyweds in the presence of both parties' relatives and friends. The groom needs to present the dowry to the bride in front of everyone at the engagement ceremony to show his sincerity and determination. But in some regions, the groom will first give the bride a portion of the dowry when proposing, and then give the remaining portion when getting engaged, depending on local customs.
What should be considered when giving a dowry
1. Clearly determine who to give the dowry money to
Firstly, clarify whether the dowry money is for the bride herself or for her family. Generally, it is given to the parents of the bride. In this case, during the engagement, it can be given in the presence of both the groom's parents and the bride's parents; If it is given to the bride herself, it is necessary to communicate with her parents in advance and confirm their agreement that the bride will receive and keep the dowry by herself.
2. Is there any other meeting ceremony before getting married
Before two newlyweds get married, their parents usually have a grand meeting to get to know each other and discuss some details of their wedding. If you choose not to get engaged, you can also give a dowry during this meeting.
3. Consider if there are any other special circumstances
It is particularly important to have sufficient funds to prepare for the wedding, as this is the key to ensuring that the wedding can proceed smoothly. If there is a shortage of funds, the dowry can be given in advance, but remember not to postpone it.