The process of proposing a marriage is something that happens after the matchmaker is successful. Only when the matchmaker is successful will we enter the process of proposing a marriage. Matchmaking, also known as "blind date", is the process of finding a match through a matchmaker, allowing both men and women to have a corresponding understanding of each other, and promoting mutual love between the two parties. In ancient times, betrothal was a process in which the man brought a dowry to express his desire to marry, and after the woman's family had seen the dowry, they expressed their attitude and decided whether to become in laws.
1、 Precautions to be taken before speaking to the media
1. Ensure that both men and women are single and have the intention of blind dates
Before the media. It is necessary to ensure that both men and women are single and have the intention to find a partner, and they do not reject blind dates. If a blind date is arranged without the other party's consent, it can easily lead to disputes.
2. Understand whether the person on a blind date wants to get out of singlehood or get married
Generally speaking, using a matchmaker is just an opportunity to promote mutual understanding between men and women. Before using a matchmaker, it is necessary to understand the thoughts of both parties. If they only want to date, then it is suitable to introduce them to people who also want to date. If they are aiming to get married, then it is necessary to introduce both partners who want to get married.
3. It's best to have a matching family background
It is recommended to use the premise of matching social status as a mediator, which can avoid embarrassment for both parties and prevent the mediator from being completely different inside and outside.
4. Don't gossip before both parties meet
As a mediator, one should not expose the other's personal affairs too much in front of one party, to avoid leaving stereotypes before meeting and affecting normal communication between both parties.
2、 Precautions for marriage proposal
1. Pay attention to clothing
appearance
Clothing must be appropriate and tidy, and appearance must be clean and tidy.
2. It's not surprising that there are many people present
When going to the bride's house to propose, you should bring a gift. This is a form of politeness and respect for elders.
3. Have a smile all over your face
The man should never have a frown on his face, he should show your sincerity and smile.
4. To show sufficient respect
Respect the requests or opinions of the female party as much as possible and handle them according to their regulations.
5. Be punctual for the appointment
Never be late. If it is really due to traffic congestion or other force majeure factors, be sure to call and inform us that you will arrive slightly later.