When proposing marriage, close and important relatives of the bride, such as her parents, grandparents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, and aunts, are required to participate. This not only expresses the importance attached to the man, but also allows relatives and friends to see if the boy is suitable, so on the day of the marriage proposal, the relatives of the woman's family are usually present.
What should the groom prepare for marriage proposal
1. Gift money
The groom should proactively inquire about the bride's opinion on the dowry, such as the amount of dowry, how to receive it, and whether the dowry includes marriage expenses and various customs and etiquette expenditures. The amount of gift money varies depending on local wedding customs.
2. Dowry list
In many regions, the most important thing when proposing a marriage is to discuss the dowry, so before the groom comes to propose, he must make a list of the dowry based on the local dowry situation and estimate his own tolerance.
3. Meeting Gift
The man personally came to propose to the woman, showing respect for her and requiring her to bring some meeting gifts. There are six types of gifts and eight types of gifts for meeting, such as tobacco, alcohol, candy, pastries, red dates, lotus seeds, etc., all of which are acceptable, and the quantity must be even.