The proposal is the first formal meeting between the elders of the two families and should be taken seriously. The bride can prepare some cash gifts, specialties, family banquets, and fruits to entertain the groom.
How should the bride's family entertain her during a marriage proposal
1. Cash rebate
When a man proposes a marriage, he usually carries a gift money to express his sincerity. In some areas, the woman needs to give a red envelope as a return gift, and the specific amount depends on customs and family economic situation.
2. Specialty products
If the hometowns of both parties are not in the same place, the female party can prepare some local specialties to entertain the male party, which is very thoughtful.
3. Family banquet
Marriage proposal is usually prepared by the bride's family for a banquet, which can be eaten at home or in a restaurant. Chatting while eating can enhance mutual understanding.
4. According to local customs, return gifts
The bride's gift should be determined according to the customs of different regions. Some places will choose some bananas, oranges and other fruits, and some will prepare some dumplings, rice dumpling and so on, as long as they meet local requirements.
What should the bride pay attention to when proposing a marriage
1. Not saying hello: When the man first arrives, the woman cannot say hello.
2. Personally welcoming: The female party personally welcomes the male party's guests at the door to show respect and welcomes them to their seats.
3. Do not take off SHOES: The other party cannot be asked to take off their shoes, please come in directly.
4. Clothing and appearance: DRESS up cleanly and neatly to leave a good impression on people.
5. Neat environment: The home environment should be cleaned in advance and kept clean and tidy.
6. Serve Dim sum: fruit, juice, sweet tea.
7. Kind attitude: In the future, if you want to marry into the man's family, do not make things too difficult for him. Both parties should establish a good relationship.
8. No goodbyes: When the man wants to leave, he cannot go out to see off. He cannot say goodbye or come back to sit (meaning he will propose a second kiss), just nod and smile before leaving.