The bride's family can refer to the following methods to choose the gift prepared by the groom's family when proposing marriage.
According to customs, return gifts
There are different customs in different places, some places have reciprocity, while others do not. When the woman responds with a gift, it's not something that can be done casually. If the female party is preparing for the betrothal ceremony at home, she should follow the local customs to carry out the specific operation. Some places will choose fruits such as bananas or oranges, as well as pig hearts and so on, as long as they meet the local requirements.
Gift Returns
Buy a decent outfit for the groom to show his approval of the son-in-law. If he agrees, the marriage will also be decided. The other party sends XO, you can return to Maotai, the other party sends bird's nest and cordyceps, and you return deer antler and ginseng. This kind of equivalent gift is better.
Cash rebate
If the female's parents are more generous and their family has better economic conditions, they can return all the money for the gift and a portion of the gift money. Of course, this situation is relatively rare, unless the female's family background is indeed poor. In general, the choice of the female's parents is to return 6600 or 8800 yuan, in order to give their daughter a certain status after marriage.