If girls can recognize earlier that the male's parents are not interested in the female's behavior, it may lead to a qualitative change in their relationship. The general expression of insincerity from the male parents towards the female's visit is as follows.
1. Not showing enthusiasm towards the girl's visit
Usually, parents are very enthusiastic about their son's girlfriend. So, if you feel that the man's parents did not show great enthusiasm for the girl's arrival, then it is very likely that they are not the standard daughter-in-law in their minds.
2. Coldness during meals
Future daughters in law who are favored by their parents are the darlings at the dinner table, and they will always invite the bride to eat anything delicious first. However, if the parents of the groom only give a few greetings to their son, it means that the girl is a stranger in the eyes of the groom's parents and does not approve of this daughter-in-law at all.
3. No gift for meeting
When visiting the groom's family for the first time, the groom's parents will prepare some gifts, such as red envelopes. The gifts may not be expensive, but mainly express their feelings. If the other party's parents have nothing prepared, no gift, and no red envelope, it means that the male party's parents do not like the female party very much or do not like the female party.
4. When I left, I didn't say that I would be a guest more often
When the recognized future daughter-in-law is preparing to leave, the male parents will tightly hold onto the girl's hand and refuse to let go, and will also ask her to visit her home more often. But parents have no feelings for the departure of girls they don't approve of, they won't open their mouths to persuade them, and even wish they could leave quickly.
5. High and mighty
Not saying a word directly, ignoring love.
6. I asked you to do housework on our first meeting
Girls may offer to help wash dishes out of politeness, while men's parents usually refuse. Not allowing girls to wash dishes is also a form of politeness and respect for girls. If the man's parents ask you to wash dishes and do housework when they first meet, then after you get married, you may be asked to do many things because they think housework is something you should do.
7. Treat you with leftover food
When meeting for the first time, not only should you prepare a large table of dishes, but at least there should be a few fresh dishes. If the groom's parents treat you with leftover food and treat you casually, it means that the groom's parents do not value you.
8. Without money, keep your mouth shut
The first manifestation of the man's parents' lack of sincerity is that no matter what the situation or situation is, they can simply say that they have no money and everything is fine, but without money, the family is poor. Actually, it doesn't mean that your parents are stingy, it's just that you're not the one they're most satisfied with, and you don't have the sincerity to make you a part of their family.
9. Shirking responsibility
Secondly, it's about shirking one's own responsibility. When faced with problems, they don't actively try to find solutions and always leave them to others, giving off the feeling of being the shopkeeper.
10. Household hygiene conditions
If a man conducts a thorough cleaning in order to bring a woman home and cleans every corner of the house, it shows that he cares a lot about women. If the house is still messy, he definitely doesn't value you.